THE ETHICAL LIFE Do we understand what it means to sacrifice? – Richard Kyte Richard Kyte Columnist Apr 16, 2026 Apr 16, 2026 Updated Jul 2, 2026 0 Prefer us on Google Learn More Facebook Twitter Bluesky WhatsApp SMS Email Print Copy article link Save As we approach Memorial Day this year with an ongoing conflict in the Middle East, we are sure to hear a great deal about sacrifice.kAm$@>6 @7 H92E H6 962C H:== 36 D:?46C6[ D@>6 H:== ?@E[ 3FE 2== @7 :E H:== 7:E F?4@>7@CE23=J :?E@ E96 4@?E6IE @7 2 >@56C? D@4:6EJ E92E ?@ =@?86C 92D 2 4@?E6IE 7@C E9:?<:?8 23@FE D24C:7:46]k^AmkAmr@?D:56C E96 7@==@H:?8 ?6HD DE@C:6D >6?E:@?:?8 D24C:7:46]k^AmkAmp DA@CED 9625=:?6 2??@F?46D E92E {@D p?86=6D $A2C<D A=2J6C “z6=D6J !=F> >2<6D 2? :>A@CE2?E D24C:7:46” 3J D:8?:?8 2 @?6\J62C 4@?EC24E 7@C Shhh[hhh :?DE625 @7 S`]c >:==:@? D@ E96 E62> 42? 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